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How can my middle schooler avoid peril on social media?

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In this article, you’ll find answers to questions like:

1. How can parents handle social media?

In middle school, many children become more engaged with social media. YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Snapchat may expose kids to cyberbullying and online predators. Even texting can turn into dangerous if kids view or send nude or semi-nude photos.

1. HOW CAN PARENTS HANDLE SOCIAL MEDIA?

FAU Professor Sameer Hinduja shares guidance from the Cyberbullying Research Center that parents monitor the time their child is on social media and apply limits if the student is not getting enough sleep or failing to complete schoolwork.

Parents can also help by making sure their children know they can block and report users who are being hurtful and unfollow accounts that don’t bring them joy.

In addition, it’s important to review your children’s friend lists to see who has access to their profiles and if your children know all the friends in person, according to NetSmartz, a program run by the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children. The best practice is for teens to set their profile to private with the expectation that anything posted on social media is not guaranteed to be private.

The Cyberbullying Research Centers advises parents to encourage middle schoolers to stand up for and be supportive of others online. Young people have the power to cultivate an online community of kindness.

SOURCES:

Sameer Hinduja, Florida Atlantic University professor and co-director of the Cyberbullying Research Center

NetSmartz 

CyberTipline

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