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Preschool isn't too early for a parent-teacher conference

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In this article, you’ll find answers to questions like:

1. What's the best approach?
2. What are the benefits?
3. What are points to discuss?

The more you talk to your child’s teacher, the more you can help your child learn and grow.

Even in pre-kindergarten and kindergarten, you can schedule a conference. Even if your child is not having problems, it’s good to check in. By requesting a conference, you’re showing the teacher that you care about learning.


After classes begin, call the school to request a parent-teacher conference. This first meeting is a chance for you and the teacher to get to know each other. Tell the teacher about your child's likes and strengths.

“When you are a partner with the school, it is a beautiful thing,” said Doris Saffran, Community Education specialist for the School District of Palm Beach County.

Before conferences, check in with your children and ask if they are happy. Look at their work they've done so far.


Parent-teacher conferences are chances for parents to hear from teachers how their child is performing in the classroom, as well as opportunities for parents to air any concerns, says Catherine Tedesco, the school district’s former literacy manager for Elementary Education.

Conferences should end on a happy note and a plan of action. However, if you and the teacher can’t agree on what to do for your child, you may need to meet with the principal.

While teachers are the experts on learning, they should offer you choices. If your child needs additional help, the teacher may bring in a team to work on an individualized education plan (IEP) for the school year.

Be sure to describe any medical needs that may impact how your child performs in school.  Ask if specialists are available if your child has special problems.


• Share family events with the teacher. A new baby, a divorce or a death can impact your child’s behavior. This gives the teacher insight.

• Tell the teacher if you speak a different language at home. If your English is not strong, the teacher can arrange for a translator to join your conference.

• Write down a plan with the teacher, including what you can do to help your child learn.

• Schedule an appointment in a few weeks to follow up on your plan.

• Afterward, sit down with your child about the conference. Discuss how you will help and ask for suggestions.


• Doris Saffran, Community Education specialist, School District of Palm Beach County
• Catherine Tedesco, former literacy manager of Elementary Education, School District of Palm Beach County

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